love is sacrifice?

Msn conversation about love:

He[5:59 AM]: Corinthian 13:4-7, Love is Patient, Love is Kind...
He[6:00 AM]: Do you think Female love and Male love may differ to certain degrees?
Jenn[6:01 AM]: yes, female & male function differently
Jenn[6:01 AM]: we also think differently
He[6:01 AM]: hmm you think so too uh
He[6:01 AM]: I think what it's missing is Sacrifice
Jenn[6:02 AM]: hmm...not really...when u really love someone..you are ready to sacrifice...without hoping much return from the other person
He[6:02 AM]: so isn't that love is sacrifice then?
Jenn[6:03 AM]: hmm..
Jenn[6:05 AM]: i think it all goes back to the willingness...
He[6:05 AM]: perhaps i give you an example instead
Jenn[6:05 AM]: ok
He[6:06 AM]: wife submitting to husband...true?
Jenn[6:06 AM]: yes
He[6:06 AM]: husband should love the wife as much as God loves the churches (in which refers to all the Chrisitians)... true?
Jenn[6:06 AM]: yes
He[6:07 AM]: so, Man should sacrifice for his wife just the way God sacrifice for us...true?
Jenn[6:07 AM]: ok..
Jenn[6:07 AM]: i think i got your point
Jenn[6:08 AM]: looks like you've been doing research lately...
Jenn[6:14 AM]: hmm... i think i do have to agree with you..
Jenn[6:14 AM]: about love being sacrifice..
Jenn[6:15 AM]: sacrifice in the things we do, time, $$, material stuff
He[6:38 AM]: Corinthians 13:4-7 talkes about Love is kind and Love is patient...
He[6:39 AM]: no doubts on that and to certain extent, I believe love from female may differ from the man to certain extent as you would agreed with me in the first place.
He[6:45 AM]: both men and women may carry the "general" love charistics like patience, kindness, trust, etc...but when it comes to sacrificing... no doubts women do sacrifice too in many different ways but Men from what I see, tend to sacrifice more to extent of sacrificing themselves for the love and happiness of their belove one...
Jenn[6:46 AM]: ok... example? why do you say that men sacrifice more?
He[6:47 AM]: you see..
He[6:49 AM]: wife submitting only to husband wherease husband must love their wife as much as God loves his churches...so...to extent men must sacrifice his life for his wife
He[6:49 AM]: i'm not trying to compare who's sacrification is more...
He[6:50 AM]: i'm trying to see how far men usually sacrifice for their love ones as compared to love being kind, patience bla bla bla but they are more towards sacrificing rather than those bla bla bla thing..that's who men shows their love more in away
Jenn[6:54 AM]: hahaha...
Jenn[6:54 AM]: ok...
Jenn[6:55 AM]: remember that God created Adam first, then only Eve from Adam's rib..
Jenn[6:55 AM]: God has always intended for Men to lead...screw those that says men & women are equal, because they simply are not
Jenn[6:56 AM]: in certain way, it's true that men seems to sacrifice more
Jenn[6:56 AM]: but women sacrifice in different way, for eg, woman give birth to man's child, which man can't do it at all. woman bear the pain for 9 months, which man won't be able to experience and understand
Jenn[6:57 AM]: it is also stated in the Bible that... in Genesis
Jenn[6:58 AM]: because of adam's sin, man have to work hard to feed the family and eve's punishment is to bear the pain of child birth
Jenn[6:58 AM]: though right now, in the modern society, man & woman are both working and financially independant
Jenn[7:00 AM]: things do changed and not many will agree to the things teached in the Bible... that's where trouble comes in the relationship, when wife are not willing to submit, they get into fight
Jenn[7:01 AM]: as for sacrificing life, if a wife really loves the husband, i'm sure she is willing too
He[7:02 AM]: lolz
He[7:02 AM]: you are comparing

*this is an actual conversation, only name have been changed to protect his privacy. He's a non-believer but I think he's learning fast.