if there's a married couple that you know very very well and you suddenly got to know that the guy is having an affair.... would you tell your friend about about? would you confront the guy about it? Or we should just keep our mouth shut?
i think it depends on how well u know the girl and how much she can trust u.. but sometimes, u get involved and then turn out, u wrong, and the girl will blame u are trying to destroy their marriage...
if u no tell, then she find out at the last also she will not blame u that early u don tell her la..
so i think, best is not to tell..and let nature take it course. U can only quietly pray for their marriage... and Perhaps, you can consider to ask that guy if really there's a need.
So answer= seems like no answer. Really depends on situation..
If me ler.. i don mind u come and tell me lar.. hahaa, choi choi choi...
hmm..a similar case has happened to my friend before but they are not married couple. Both of them are my best friends. The guy told me personally about his affair. I felt bad to hide from my friend. However, the lesson told me not to tell the girl as girls tend to be emotional mah. I only talked to my guy friend and tried my best to understand the situation since he took initiative to share with me. Normally, if they are our best friends, they do sometimes take our words into account because we know them well.
Relationship issue is always complicated that we as friends can hardly understand. Therefore, intervention may complicate the situation and create misunderstanding.
Result: He was neither with his gf who is my best friend nor with his affair. He's married with his wife.
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i think it depends on how well u know the girl and how much she can trust u.. but sometimes, u get involved and then turn out, u wrong, and the girl will blame u are trying to destroy their marriage...
if u no tell, then she find out at the last also she will not blame u that early u don tell her la..
so i think, best is not to tell..and let nature take it course. U can only quietly pray for their marriage... and Perhaps, you can consider to ask that guy if really there's a need.
So answer= seems like no answer. Really depends on situation..
If me ler.. i don mind u come and tell me lar.. hahaa, choi choi choi...
hahaha... thank u for sharing ur thoughts...
muaks..
hmm..a similar case has happened to my friend before but they are not married couple. Both of them are my best friends. The guy told me personally about his affair. I felt bad to hide from my friend. However, the lesson told me not to tell the girl as girls tend to be emotional mah. I only talked to my guy friend and tried my best to understand the situation since he took initiative to share with me. Normally, if they are our best friends, they do sometimes take our words into account because we know them well.
Relationship issue is always complicated that we as friends can hardly understand. Therefore, intervention may complicate the situation and create misunderstanding.
Result: He was neither with his gf who is my best friend nor with his affair. He's married with his wife.
Just my sharing! :)
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